how we keep this space safe
Community guidelines.
We let go of rules that don't serve mothers. These are the few we keep, because they make our gatherings a place where anyone can speak.
Our community standards.
- Speak from your own life. Say "I", not "you should."
- Listen to understand. Stories here aren't up for debate.
- What's shared here stays here, unless the person says otherwise.
- Every kind of mother belongs: working, home, single, step, foster, adoptive, grieving, becoming.
- No selling, recruiting or pitching during gatherings.
- No harassment, hate speech or threats, ever.
- No real fire. Ever. Rip it, don't light it.
Online.
When you post with #FeedTheFire, don't share other people's children or private details without permission. We may remove comments that break these guidelines from our pages.
If something goes wrong.
Hosts can pause a conversation or ask someone to leave. Tell us at megan@bigmotherenergy.com. If someone is in danger, call 911 or your local emergency number first.