Topic 1 of 5 · Mom Guilt

Put the guiltdown.

I made up rules about being a good mom. You probably did too. I name mine, rip them up and keep what's true.

Megan writing at her kitchen table with her son on her shoulders
Photo: Stessie Kelly Photography

rule I made up:

A good mom feels guilty when she's away.

Ripped. The truth now:

I can miss them and love my work.

Every unwritten rule has a truer one underneath. Find yours.

what I believe

1

Love is the fact.

Guilt is a feeling that passes. Your love for your kids stays.

2

Choose new rules.

The old rules came from somewhere. You get to write better ones.

3

All of it belongs.

Rest, work and fun all belong in a good mom's day.

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Unwritten Rules

Six rules I made up about motherhood, and the truth I keep instead.